Marriage and ME

Marriage is not a simple relationship. It unique, it’s complicated. Just imagination two different people, with different mindset, are living under one roof. We, even individually sometimes have mix problem and battling with ourselves. Imagine when we have different interest and have to settle for the best.

Human being is not a robot. We have feelings, many kinds of feeling. And it is control with our brain and heart. Sometimes, we might lose our grip. So what are we holing on? Again it comes back to the sense we have, religion!

I admit sometimes I had low time with my husband. Sometimes we quarrel on the pettiest thing in the world and not worth to discuss. But that is not important. The important thing is how you handle it. It doesn’t mean you have to scream to get what you want. Discuss and tolerate. When misunderstanding or different interest takes place and the situation is heating up, you just have to know how to stop. Just relax awhile and collect yourself. Remember what the purpose you have this conversation: to get the best result. Thus, calm down.

Seriously, this is a bloody reminder to me. I love myself, kids, husband, parents, siblings and family. I don’t want to regret with my fool act.

I can’t stop thinking bout the lady that was found dead by her husband in their room, hanging herself at the fan. http://www.utusan.com.my/utusan/Dalam_Negeri/20120730/dn_14/Eksekutif-TV9-ditemui-mati

How about her son? Husband? Parents? I know I’m not in her shoes. But I guess I learn a lot from this tragedy and to value more what I have in my life. I have to be wiser in many things. Ya Allah, please guide me.